Fighting is Losing

By Brian Nadon Acceptance? Resignation? That’s not me, we say, I never give up. I’m a fighter. Ok. If you say so, Brian. But there’s a difference between being a fighter and a doer. Remember, one of the outcomes of “fighting” is losing. And that’s what happens most of the time; indeed, every time when …

Why Worry

Worry is pointless not only because it rarely makes things better, but also because you’re rarely ever worried about the right thing!

Settling in Relationships and PTSD

By Brian Nadon There are many reasons why people settle in relationships. Many settle for the wrong reasons, such as convenience, fear of being alone or lonely, financial advantage etc. There are times people involved in the relationship are unclear what he or she actually wants which ultimately, hurts you and your partner in the …

Fear of Abandonment

By Brian Nadon The fear of abandonment is arguably one of the most common and most damaging "phobias" of all. People with the fear of abandonment tend to display compulsive behaviours and thought patterns that sabotage their relationships, ultimately leading to the dreaded abandonment. This fear can be devastating, but understanding it is the first …